Monday, March 12, 2012

Cup O' Joy: {Daily Choice....Fairy Tale Marriage}





1 Corinthians 13:8

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 8 Love never fails.



1 min:

Perhaps your marriages isn't the fairy-tale dream you had dreamed it would be. Your prince devotes his time and energy to work, sports, the computer, the yard, the car... anything but you. You feel like his college roommate instead of a soul mate. You may be starting to wonder if it's worth staying or if you should just give up.  But real life isn't a fairy tale and real love isn't a fuzzy feeling... it's a choice that God calls you to make each moment of the day. Choose to love your husband with the same unconditional love that God continually shows you.



5 min:

Pray:  Thank you, God, that I can be honest with you about my dissapointments with my marriage. I know what you are calling me to do... to choose to unconditionally love my husband and confess that some days it's hard. Help me choose love. Continue to pray as the Spirit leads you, or just sit quietly in God's presence.


10 min:


1 Corinthians 13:1-13

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1 Corinthians 13

 1 If I speak in the tongues[a] of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3 If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast,[b] but do not have love, I gain nothing.
 4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
 8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. 11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. 12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
 13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.


1 John 3:18

New International Version (NIV)
18 Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth.


1 Peter 1:22

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 22 Now that you have purified yourselves by obeying the truth so that you have sincere love for each other, love one another deeply, from the heart.[a]



1 John 4:16

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16 And so we know and rely on the love God has for us.   God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them.


Genesis 2:24

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 24 That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.




A Picture of Marriage.....

Ephesians 5:21-32

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Instructions for Christian Households
 21 Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. 22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
 25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing[a] her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”[b] 32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church.


Honor marriage; be faithful.....

Hebrews 13:4

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 4 Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.

Good advice for marriage....

1 Peter 3:1-8

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1 Peter 3

 1 Wives, in the same way submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, 2 when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. 3 Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. 4 Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. 5 For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to adorn themselves. They submitted themselves to their own husbands, 6 like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her lord. You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear.
 7 Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.
 8 Finally, all of you, be like-minded, be sympathetic, love one another, be compassionate and humble.


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